You Can Create Your Own Reality

Want to creat your own reality, meaning you choose things to happen to you that may seem out of your control? For example, do you want to get asked out on more dates, do you want people to offer you more freebies, do you want people to compliment you more, etc.? This stuff is small potatoes for someone who knows how to create their own reality and it's the easiest way for newbies to get started in manifesting bigger desires.

Intend and Expect Something Small that You Want

Start to expect whatever it is you want, with detachment. Desiring with detachment can be explained in a few different ways: 1) you want it, but you don't need it; 2) you expect it, so you don't worry about possibly not getting it; 3) you have faith that you will get it, even when it appears as though you won't, your faith only gets stronger; 4) you know you will either get the exact thing you desire or something better, so it doesn't matter if you get that exact thing. Start with a single, small desire such as receiving a compliment from a stranger if it's rare that anyone compliments you. Just expect it - people give and receive compliments every day and you deserve one for any number of reasons! Simply say to yourself as soon as you are barely awake in the morning, "I'm getting a compliment from a stranger today!" and say it like you mean it! Say it confidently with feeling! Say it a few times while you're getting ready! Then let it go - don't worry about it and don't get obsessed. If you're doing it right it will happen, but it might take practice so don't beat yourself up or get down on the method if it doesn't work immediately - sometimes it takes time to reprogram our habits and ways of thinking! Remember, "A quitter never wins and a winner never quits!" If you don't succeed in the first day, repeat your affirmation at night before bed, with true feeling, and visualize it briefly before drifting off to sleep. (See the "Visualization" Forum for more details on this.)

Intend What You Really Want, but Don't Need

Also, make sure it's a desire you actually care enough about, but not too much - it should be fun for you to create and have happen, but not something you will get attached to trying to force to happen. Once you successfully attract one small desire, do another different one with the same method. Manifest several small desires like these, until you gain enough confidence in your own powers and the power of the universe to go after something a little bigger, and continue in this way! If you ever get stuck, go back to creating small things in your reality and work your way up. If you still have trouble, see the "Clearing Negative Beliefs" Forum. Let me know how it works for you, or if you need any troubleshooting!