How to create the romantic relationship you desire (new or renewed)...

Whether you're already in a relationship that's lost its luster and needs to be revived, or you're looking to start a wonderful new relationship, here's what you can do!

Reviving Current Relationship - Manifesting Your Desires:

1. Start focusing on everything positive about your relationship and about your partner, and stop focusing on anything you don't like. This can mean many things. For example, when your partner does something you like, "reward" them (e.g. say 'thank you,' or 'how thoughtful,' or 'that's sweet of you,' or whatever is appropriate)! And then when they do something you do not like, don't say anything and don't tie yourself in a silent emotional knot - just let it go! Or start writing in a journal and start writing all and only the wonderful things about your partner and your relationship. You'll find yourself having more and more to say and write, and all the old negative parts of your relationship will fall away easily.

2. Do more things together that you both enjoy and stop dragging each other to do things only one person wants to do... eventually you both won't mind doing these same dreaded activities anymore because your relationship is so much better and your own attitude about life is more positive!

3. Visualize your happy, loving, strong, or (fill in the adjective), relationship daily. (For Visualization details, see "Visualization" Forum.) For example, when you're in bed ready to go to sleep, imagine, picture, and feel your happy relationship exactly as you want it to be, and drift off to sleep with this image in your heart, in your mind, body, and spirit.

4. For other methods of manifesting desires, including relationships, visit the "Manifesting Desires..." Forum.

Finding New Relationship - Manifesting Your Desires:

1. Decide what kind of relationship or partner you want (not what you might be able to settle for) and state it, either mentally, aloud, or on paper. For example, "I want a relationship with a tall, dark, handsome man, who's motivated in life, shares my passion for art, believes in marriage and wants to start a family with me, and makes at least $100,000 per year!" You can talk on a "by 'mm/dd/yy'" if you want, but stay detached from your desire by having faith that you will get this or something better! State your desired outcome in the present, first person. Oddly, simply knowing what you want with clarity, and asking for it, is further than most people get and usually is enough to do the trick! But you can do more to make things happen faster.

2. Visualize the partner or relationship that you want regularly, and make sure it makes you feel good! (See #3 above or for a more detailed Visualization explanation, see the "Visualization" Forum.)

3. Do more of the things you enjoy simply because you enjoy them and not because you hope to meet someone, and definitely don't do things you don't enjoy in the hopes of meeting someone! Would you be interested in someone you met at one of your favorite activities who did not appear to be having much fun or really want to be there, but had a look of desperation in his eyes when you said hello? Probably not. If you're happy and doing things you love, you'll attract other happy people doing things they love ("Like attracts like").

4. For other methods of manifesting desires, including relationships, visit the "Manifesting Desires..." Forum.