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I am lost and scared....
hello,
I came across this site after searching 'karma' on the net. And I found myself reading the articles and posts..and soon after, i registered an account as I was touched by alot of the posts. I found myself identifying with some of the feelings that others go through. So to the people that hosted this site..i say a big thank you :)
I would like to share something that is happening in my life now that is starting to overwhelm me. Things around me, relationships, work and all started taking a sharp dip the last few months. It's as though life has thrown me the greatest curve ball for which I can't seem to catch. The woman I am having a relationship with doesn't trust me ( i didn't have a very good 'record' with women) It's something I have conciously tried to change. I was young and used to have a huge male ego. But at the end of the day all I'm really looking for is love in all sincerity. :(( I realised the lesson the hardway.
Just tonight, my best mate decided to allow trivial rumours to get the better of him and it ended our relationship and close friends of 15 years. I really thought he would have clarified his doubts with me as opposed to listening to random hearsay and that hurt my feelings. All his 'accusations' were untrue but in his anger, he really believed the 'untruth'. That really cut me inside.
My point is I'm sure things happen for a reason for me to learn something irregardless of the situation.
Losing my best friend to a something silly really woke me up and I want to make things right as they should be in the first place. I feel lost, desperate and above all scared that my world will come crashing down like it is doing now....
It's been hard for me to write this but all i want to do is get my life back ...How do i begin to keep my head up....? I used to be a very optimistic person but i'm the total opposite now.
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Turning Around
Hi J,
For me, turning around meant expressing my gratitude for all the good things in my life.
I learned to face forward and embrace change instead of trying to go back.
And finally I had to believe that I don't always know what I want. I could sit around pining for someone who's lost to me, and live with that misery, perhaps even waste time reconstructing a failed relationship. But if I focus on the love I long to share, I know that relationship will come to me with someone I hadn't imagined.
Sending hope and a prayer,
Maragold
Light
thank you for the words. it definitely makes me see things in a diff light. something so easy to say but also easy to forget sometimes.
Well
From you're words I can make out that you will be ok. (i.o.w. don't be scared take good care of yourselve (good food/rest) you'll be fine)
Ego becomes bigger when people are insecure or face criticism.
Other women i.t.c. are great for reassurance...
But hey, not very accepted in our society...
Trust is essential and once lost very hard to get back.
(Which means: don't lie and when you cheat: Don't lie!!!)
Talk to your friend don't take a stand and tell him you love him.
Dont worry be happy:)
hey J
I had a similar expirence a few years ago. My friends didn't want to talk to me and I was devastated. However this experience drove me to question the direction of my life and to change myself. Sure enough when I changed so did everyone around me. Nowadays we are friends again. So don't be scared take it as a lesson a try to learn from it.
Trying to be happy :)
thanks for sharing. i am taking a deep look at everything starting with myself. it is hard but i will get through this! thank you all for your words :)
thank you.
Hi J, Certain events in life
Hi J,
Certain events in life help us grow and unfortunately its the painful ones that force us to do so. When there is an end to something it is actually a begining of something else.
As far as your friend, let it be, time will show the truth and he will realise his mistake and if he is meant to be part of your life he will return.
As far as woman you are right in saying that having love and serenity is worth more than the controlling ego relationships. If this woman loves you hold on to her and wor on her gaining your trust it will be part of the growth you do together.
Sandra
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