I read THE SECRET a year ago and my life has steadily improved since then.

Just stopping in to say hello. I found Good Karma last year shortly after I finished reading The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, but there wasn't much action here back then, and way leads onto way...
I want to share my remedy: If life is knocking you about, try reading The Secret or watching the movie.
I can attest to the radical difference in a person's life that can follow applying the wisdom found within the book and movie. I'm almost ashamed to talk about how much better my life was after a year's time.
My heart goes out to everyone who is living in despair. I remember when every day was an effort that felt futile. I knew life was out to get me, and it was too late to expect any more than I currently had in the world. I could understand that my situation was the result of decisions I made, opportunities I didn't pursue perhaps, but I did not see how I could turn everything around.
A year ago I was on dial-up. I still worked retail. We hadn't had cable television in our home in nearly three years. I was driving on a license that had been revoked back in 2002. I was crushed under the weigh of debts I thought I would never be able to face. And then everything hit the fan again March 2007. Just my 19th nervous breakdown I suppose. I didn't have enough to pay the rent on time, we ran out of heating oil, and the car needed to go to the shop. It was impossible to trace my problems back to a specific date or event by then. Life had been horrible for ten years, and I felt unequal to the task of working so hard to get nowhere, and completely uninterested in facing up to any more drama.
My son had seen the The Secret at school, and he assured me I just had to see the movie to understand how to make it all better. He was confident all I needed was to see the movie, I finally promised I would if he would just stop talking about it. Once the rent was paid and other crises were averted/funded and there was some money for a frivolous pursuit I went to the bookstore. I bought the book instead of the movie because I am more a reader than a watcher. I read The Secret overnight, and I have never again been as stressed out about life. Every time I feel myself begin to get heated I apply the recommended techniques and things go my way, or at least go better than they would have.
Changes in the first year include: Verizon installed internet in June, and Comcast upgraded us to high speed and cable in December. I started my fantastic job in July, took care of my license in October. And just last week I settled an old debt in court. For me, these are huge victories. Though I guess that last one is more than a year from when I read the book. But it's part of the whole trend of my being able to pay my way and settle old claims.
Unexpected checks in the mail, I remember how I scoffed at that. But I downloaded a short Secret video about money from the website and I watched it all the time and imagined myself bathed in wealth. In July I landed a job with a company I had been trying three years to get into. And this job turned out to be a work from home situation. It's a real job, 40 hrs/wk, with benefits. But I do all my work on a computer in my bedroom. I accepted the job thinking I would earn about 25% more than I had at my old job. After my first complete month on the job (August) I received notice that I would be receiving a bonus check that was nearly equal to a week's pay. The following month I earned a bonus closer to two week's pay. I had been promised bonuses, but I'd had no idea they would be so lucrative. This was like unexpected checks in the mail for me. Definitely unexpected compensation for the job I accepted.
And then, the last week of February this year, my boss offered me a promotion. And in a year's time I was making twice as much money as I was when I read The Secret.
I believe in the Secret and the application of its principles. I think positively. I choose to believe that everything in the universe is working for my benefit. I write down my goals and dreams and I review them to keep them fresh in my mind. I express and experience gratitude as often as I think of it, and try to appreciate more and more each day.
I believe that when I went through life thinking that everything was against me, everything WAS against me. And once I started thinking everything happened to my benefit, even when it did not appear to be so, suddenly everything started going better than I had known how to expect.
But I must admit I'm surprised I reap all these benefits because I don't practice the Secret as often as I could. Too many of my to do lists go undone. I don't remember to visualize every day. I average 5 journal entries a month. And yet somehow it's still enough to work to my benefit and I am now making investments and paying off old debts. And finance is only one area of my life that has improved.
It's almost insane how much better my life gets every month. I'm working on launching an online business. I go to Toastmasters meetings and take night courses to invest in my education. And it doesn't feel as hard as I thought it might. I have energy and inspiration to do more than I did when I worked so hard and expected so little in return. Now my efforts reward my expectations.
Oh well, it's hard to know when sharing one's joy becomes boastful and arrogant. If you read this far and you really want to know what could make your life better, and you haven't already read or seen The Secret, please try it. For your sake.
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hi...
i accidentally bumped into your blog while surfing the internet, i was looking for some karma quotes i was intending to send someone. i definitely am experiencing the kind of life you had. i'm jobless and way deep in debts right now, me and my husband are living under my parents roof. it's a blessing we have no kids yet. i am sick with chronic ITP and the medical costs is just huge. i haven't been back to find work until now because i can't cope with stressful work anymore. i spend most time surfing the net to find work from home opportunities which are mostly scams. my husband's salary isn't enough to pay the debts we have. thankfully my parents are there to support us with this.
i'm very curious about the book you've read and i'll definitely look for it. thanks for sharing your story. i've always believed that there is a rainbow after every storm and that everything that happens is for a reason but there are times when feel that God just doesn't hear my prayers and pleas. and that even though i constantly cheer myself up that all these is gonna end someday, i still end up getting depressed with how things are going on, like it's never ending. reading your story somehow gives me hope that things will really go fine someday. i really hope so.
The Secret
Hi,
You can try your local library for the book or DVD. If you rent DVDs I know Netflix has The Secret and I expect other clubs would as well. If all else fails, ask every person you meet whether they have read The Secret or seen the movie, and if they say yes, ask if you can borrow the book or DVD. You might also check tv listings. The Secret was originally a tv movie.
Ask and you shall receive is the essence of The Secret. If you ask someone who possesses and has read The Secret (or seen the movie) they will share if you ask.
And until you receive The Secret try to focus on appreciating everything that is good with your life. Do you have enough to eat? Are you warm when it is cold? Whatever it is that is well with you, appreciate. And then take that appreciation forward and imagine how you will feel when all of your life is exactly the way you wish it will be.
It's sounds like you are very much as I was when I read The Secret. I knew many different pieces of positive thinking and success theory, but I didn't know what brings it all together and how to respond to setbacks. The Secret brought it all together for me. I could stop worrying about what happened in my life and why. All that matters now is making the best decisions today to create the life I want tomorrow. And most of the time it's as simple as choosing to think like a victor instead of a victim.
If you don't find The Secret soon, e-mail me at mamushroom8765@yahoo.com.
Peace.
The Secret is a Lie... actually full of lies. Trust yourself!
Learn more about the lawsuit against The Secret at... http://www.smh.com.au/articles/2008/05/17/1210765254572.html
The Secret is the latest and by far the worst example of a HIGHLY profitable trend where self-help gurus with fabricated new age titles and little relevant education, credentials or legitimate expertise brainwash us into believing that they know what is best for us, our marriages and our families.
Often their only contribution to society is introducing some exotic sounding, new age philosophy. However, they often cleverly form an incestuous group of like-minded “experts” who cross-promote each other by swearing their success is due to following the beliefs of another member of their “cult!” All the while, they ply the airwaves jockeying for an ever-larger audience by appearing in the national media to garner third-party endorsements.
The Self-Help Movement has become the Self-Destruct Movement by diminishing or destroying our critical thinking skills to choose and evolve on our own. We have given up the freedom to build healthy lives, marriages and families based on our unique history and life experience. Instead many victims, blinded to the value of their own life experiences, are attracted to the latest secret in self-help, in an attempt to find out what they should think, feel and how they should act... this is the definition of a cult.
The solution is a return to our (common) senses! The best way out of this learned “self-helplessness” is to go cold turkey. Stop following ALL self-help gurus now. Begin, instead, to reclaim your natural, God-given ability to think for yourself. The common sense that was once readily available to all of us is still there free of charge and waiting to be applied to just about any challenge we might face in life… all you have to do is use it.
Please, let's all work together to stop the flock of "sheepeople" who blindly move from one UNPROVEN concept to the next, looking for the answers to life's challenges that you already possess and that is the OBVIOUS!
My critical thinking skills are not impaired, thank you.
I read the article to which you linked. Two people dispute the ownership of creative rights to a book. Are you arguing this proves there is no merit to the contents of the book?
I have proven to myself the merit of my $25 purchase. Please be assured that regardless of the outcome of the trial cited above, my life is better for having read The Secret. Perhaps not by the criteria which you apply to a life well lived, you don't explain your criteria. I know I am using my God-given intelligence and skills to realize my full potential to a greater extent than I was in the past. Works for me. Might work for others in despair.
If it didn't work for you and this book angers you so, you shouldn't spend any time or energy bringing yourself into its presence. Part of creating your perfect life is finding those things that bring you joy and prosperity and not going in search of things that bring you pain and sorrow. You will find what you seek.
Peace.
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