What next
I am very new to this. I just stumbled over the website, and read some great comments. I have a problem understanding this. If you tell someone that you are in a relationship with, that something that they are doing bother's you. They don't attempt to fix it, and continue to ignore it. It then esculated into a big fight, and bang the relationship ends. How to you recover from that?after you become the blame for wanting this to end, and they vow never to call you again.
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What's next for me too
I am going through the same thing. Halfway through the fight I realized I didn't want him gone and maybe if I approached the situation in another way I wouldn't have pushed him out of my life. I bought a card and wrote a loving message while at the same time discussing my feelings about what happened. I hope in some way it helps open up doors of opportunity for growth and change.
Sometimes ends are the best
As hard as it may seem today, sometimes the best answer is to let things end. In the above mentioned example you have to ask yourself how much this other person is really committed to the relationship in the first place.
If they are willing to turn a suggestion to change into a reason to leave.... Maybe they are not really trying to be there in the first place.
In an end there is great oppertunity for a new beginning for you.... We as humans I feel are often very afraid of change, but you must remember that often moving on to new things is when great things happen to us.
I mean we are all afraid to become parents, but when it happends the great change is one of the best things that happends to us. In the case of relationships sometimes loss of a bad relationship create a chance at a good relationship.
Do not fear the changes that you will go through in life, instead embrace them...
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