Hi Lawrence

Sorry to hear about your friend and how low he feels. You can not get in his head or his position - even by trying to imagine it. He probably feels there is no way out and "the world is better off without him". He needs to know that he has friends and has an important role to play still in life (point this out to him and paint the picture you know he can achieve for him.

Suicidal thoughts are serious - you mentioned he tried before. Was he looking for a cry for help? Rally his friends now, no matter how barmy they think you are. It may not stop him wanting to end his life but you have done your effort as a human being to support him. I lost a loved one myself by suicide and he tried before. I dont think anyone takes it seriously until it happens - but the aftermath for those left behind is terrible.

Tell him suicide is a permanant solution to a temporary problem.

Anna